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“Take Words: Reclaiming Loving Guidance Before It’s Too Late” Find A Friend

Parshat Devarim and Haftarat Chazon

38 Years of Silence and its rewards
38 Years of Silence and its rewards

Find a friend and take loving guidance before it is too late.

Rabbi Goldstein:

“The ultimate goal must come from a place where I’ve expressed the verse, ‘ You shall love the Lord your G-D, which means that the name of Heaven should be beloved to you.

In other words, what is the ultimate goal of kedish Hashem? That people should love Hashem is the ultimate goal, and so a person who truly loves Hashem will want other people to love Hashem”.

1. THESE ARE the words which Moses spoke unto all Israel beyond the Jordan; in the wilderness, in the Arabah, over against Suph, between Paran and Tophel, and Laban, and Hazeroth, and Di-zahab.

א׳. אֵלֶּה הַדְּבָרִים אֲשֶׁר דִּבֶּר מֹשֶׁה אֶל־כָּל־יִשְׂרָאֵל בְּעֵבֶר הַיַּרְדֵּן בַּמִּדְבָּר בָּעֲרָבָה מוֹל סוּף בֵּין־פָּארָן וּבֵין־תֹּפֶל וְלָבָן וַחֲצֵרֹת וְדִי זָהָב׃

2. It is eleven days journey from Horeb unto Kadesh-barnea by the way of mount Seir.

ב׳. אַחַד עָשָׂר יוֹם מֵחֹרֵב דֶּרֶךְ הַר־שֵׂעִיר עַד קָדֵשׁ בַּרְנֵעַ׃

3. And it came to pass in the fortieth year, in the eleventh month, on the first day of the month, that Moses spoke unto the children of Israel, according unto all that the LORD had given him in commandment unto them;

ג׳. וַיְהִי בְּאַרְבָּעִים שָׁנָה בְּעַשְׁתֵּי־עָשָׂר חֹדֶשׁ בְּאֶחָד לַחֹדֶשׁ דִּבֶּר מֹשֶׁה אֶל־בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל כְּכֹל אֲשֶׁר צִוָּה יְהוָה אֹתוֹ אֲלֵהֶם׃

List of Questions Introduced, Answered, and Not Answered

Questions Introduced & Answered in This Podcast/Lesson:

  • What is Sefer Devarim really (vs. popular “review” assumption)? → Answered: Collection of speeches, centered on the main mitzvot speech for the Land.
  • Why does the book open with confusing geographic/timing verses (1:1-5)? → Answered: Double introduction to main speech + first speech; references prior teachings and current renewal.
  • What does “devarim” (these words) refer to? → Answered: Primarily the mitzvot/laws of the main speech (with rebuke elements).
  • What is the overall structure? → Answered: Four speeches; main one in 5–26.
  • Why study Devarim this way (start from the middle)? → Answered: Books like this are best understood after full reading; the main content unlocks the intro.
  • How does this fit Chumash’s progression? → Answered: Completes the Sinai covenant by providing practical laws for nationhood in the Land.

Questions Introduced but Not Fully Answered (Teased for Later Lessons):

  • Why do details in Devarim’s narratives sometimes differ from those in Shemot/Bamidbar (apparent contradictions)? → Teased: Due to the introductory speech’s rebuke/motivational purpose for the new generation (deeper in the next shiur on the first speech).
  • Exact internal structure of the main speech (e.g., how laws relate to the Ten Commandments)? → Teased: Follows Dibrot framework; more in subsequent classes.
  • Full meaning of the name ” Mishneh Torah “? → Partially answered (not a simple repeat), but deeper implications later.
  • Specifics of the first speech’s content, and why is the 40-year delay emphasized? → Outlined but detailed analysis next.
  • Broader theological implications (e.g., for daily Shema, teshuva, nation-building)? → Introduced as key but expanded later.

Detailed Outline of the Introduction Lesson

Broader Purpose: Prepares the nation for covenantal life; explains differences in details (rebuke angle for new generation).

Common Misunderstanding: Devarim is a farewell review of Chumash (quick test: compare content — laws, narratives don’t match a simple repeat).

Logical Approach: Read the book in context. “Cheat” by starting at ch. 5 to see the long speech of laws (continues to ch. 26).

Main Speech Identified: Chs. 5–26 — laws from Sinai (with Ten Commandments framework), for life in the Land. Moshe reviews/teaches them finally.

Introductory Speech: Chs. 1–4 — history to explain the delay and motivate.

Opening Verses Explained: As above — double intro; “devarim” refers to the mitzvot of the main speech, taught in multiple places/times.

Parashat Davarim: Rebukes

Parshat Devarim opens with Moshe’s words to a new generation poised to enter the Land. Rabbi Menachem Leibtag’s introduction reveals that these verses are not a confusing list of geographic terms but a deliberate double introduction. Verses 1:1–4 introduce the entire book and its main speech of mitzvot (chapters 5–26), while 1:5 introduces the first speech itself.

The “devarim” are the laws Moshe taught during the ideal eleven-day journey from Horev to Kadesh Barnea—now renewed after forty years of delay caused by the spies’ failure. This backward reading—from the main speech to the opening—unlocks the pesukim and shows Devarim as purposeful preparation, not mere review.

The Haftarah for Shabbat Chazon, Isaiah 1:1–27, echoes the same rebuke. God declares: “I raised children and exalted them, but they have rebelled against Me” (1:2).

The people have become like Sodom and Gomorrah; their rituals are empty while justice for the orphan and widow is ignored (1:10–17). Yet the prophet offers hope:

“Come, let us reason together” (1:18), and redemption comes through justice and teshuvah (1:27). The parallel is unmistakable—both Moshe and Isaiah speak words of loving correction before national catastrophe.

Hashem Our Boss: Rabbi Goldstein

Rabbi Warren Goldstein deepens this through Pirkei Avot. Criticism is not harsh judgment but an act of friendship. Pirkei Avot 1:6 commands, “Acquire for yourself a friend”—a chaver who learns with you, advises, and corrects your errors because we are biased about ourselves. Pirkei Avot 2:13 adds that the proper path includes becoming a good friend who guides.

True tochacha must begin with self-work: self-awareness, humility, and the willingness to receive correction even more than to give it. It flows from generosity of spirit and love for Hashem, so that “the name of Heaven should be beloved to you” (Pirkei Avot 4:5, via the Gemara on Kiddush Hashem). The ultimate goal is inspiration, not fear—helping others love Hashem and fulfill their potential.

Perkei Avot

Pirkei Avot 5:21 crowns this vision: the highest level is one who brings merit to the many, mazake et ha-rabbim, by inspiring mitzvot, connection, and love. Moshe is the model; the opposite—causing many to sin—brings the greatest harm. Thus, criticism is reframed as “bringing merit,” building greatness in children, spouses, and communities.

Here, the essay turns to our generation’s failure. As parents and as Adam without the Bible, we have outsourced our primary duty—“Hear, O Israel, teach your children”—to systems and cultures that do not have our children’s best interests at heart. The result is a documented crisis: record teen depression, anxiety, and despair. Without the Tree of Life blueprint, humanity drifts, its frequency lowered, its energy drained. We have failed to give the words that create worlds and build resilience.

Yet the prophets do not leave us in despair. Hosea 14:2, read with the Haftarah, commands: “Take for yourselves words and return to Hashem… instead of bulls, the offering of our lips.” The frequency of Torah words restores what criticism alone might drain. Hearing rebuke is hard, but when it comes from love—as from a true chaver or from Moshe—it calls us to repent and reclaim our role. We must become the mazake, the one who builds up, who sees the greatness in our children and inspires them to love Hashem and one another.

The sky is the limit when guidance flows from self-refinement and love for Hashem. Then we sanctify His Name, spread connection, and show how much we care. The opening lines of Devarim finally make sense: these are the words we must take, speak, and live—so that the next generation enters the Land not delayed by our failures, but empowered by our loving inheritance.

Pirkei Avot 1:6 — “Joshua ben Perachia said: Acquire for yourself a friend [K’neh l’cha chaver], acquire for yourself a teacher, and judge everyone favorably.”

  • Footnote/Context: Fundamental for criticism. A true chaver (friend) learns Torah with you, advises, and corrects your errors. We are biased toward ourselves; friends provide objectivity. Criticism from friendship is a duty of love, not harm. (Rabbenu Yonah elaborates the three purposes.) This sets the relational model for all guidance.

Pirkei Avot 2:13 (in the context of Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai’s students) — Students discuss the proper path. One emphasizes chaver tov (good friend).

  • Footnote/Context: Seek a correcting friend and become one. Applies to marriage (“beloved friends”), parenting, leadership. True friendship includes uncomfortable guidance for success in Torah life.

Pirkei Avot 4:5 (on Kiddush Hashem) — Emphasizes actions that make Heaven’s Name beloved through ethical conduct.

    Pirkei Avot 5:21 — “Whoever brings merit to the many [mazake et ha-rabbim], sin is not attributed to him… Whoever causes the many to sin [machati et ha-rabbim] is not given the opportunity to repent.” (Contrast: Moshe as ultimate mazake.)

    • Footnote/Context: Highest achievement — inspire many toward mitzvot, connection, love (Hashem, self, others). Builds up greatness. Opposite destroys. Moshe exemplifies this through guidance. Criticism/guidance is really “bringing merit” and inspiration.

    Hazan Gavriel ben David

    Key Takeaways

    • Parshat Devarim includes Moshe’s speeches to prepare a new generation for covenantal life, revealing deeper meanings beyond a simple review.
    • Key questions discussed include the structure of Devarim, the significance of the opening verses, and the concept of ‘tochacha’ or loving correction.
    • The Haftarah for Shabbat Chazon parallels this theme of rebuke and hope, emphasizing justice and teshuva as essential for redemption.
    • Rabbi Goldstein highlights the importance of self-awareness and loving criticism, encouraging community guidance and inspiration.
    • In today’s context, the article calls for active engagement in teaching and uplifting our children to combat crises and spiritual disconnection.

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